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Ellen DeGeneres still remembers Elton John’s hurtful comments about her after she came out

Josh Jackman March 15, 2018
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Ellen DeGeneres has revealed that she still remembers being “hurt” by Elton John’s remarks about her following her public coming out.

The talk show host came out on the cover of TIME Magazine in April 1997 with the message: “Yep, I’m Gay!”

She then appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show and Diane Sawyer, before memorably coming out on her sitcom, Ellen, in an episode watched by more than 40 million people.

But while speaking to actor Dax Shepard on his Armchair Expert podcast, the lesbian icon said that not long after the Puppy Episode aired, she found herself struggling.

“It was huge. It was celebrated, it was 45 million people that watched – and then they just stopped promoting it, because everybody was scared.

“We were losing sponsors, so they were just acting like: ‘We’re just letting it glide. We’re not going to touch it.’

LOS ANGELES, CA - JANUARY 18: TV personality/actress Ellen DeGeneres (L) and actress Portia de Rossi attend the People's Choice Awards 2017 at Microsoft Theater on January 18, 2017 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Christopher Polk/Getty Images for People's Choice Awards)
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“So I got no more advertising, I got no more promotion. So they canceled it.”

And she said that at the time, “everyone was just sick of it.”

This even included famous pop stars, it seems.

She told Dax: “Even Elton John said: ‘Shut up already. We know you’re gay. Be funny.’

NEW YORK, NY - JANUARY 28:  Recording artist Sir Elton John attends the 60th Annual GRAMMY Awards at Madison Square Garden on January 28, 2018 in New York City.  (Photo by Christopher Polk/Getty Images for NARAS)
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“I had never met him and I thought, ‘What kind of support is that from a gay person?’”

“But everybody assumed I was just non-stop talking about,” Ellen added.

“It hurt my feelings. I was getting jokes made at my expense on every late-night show, people were making fun of me – so I was really depressed.

LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 14: In this handout photo provided by One Voice: Somos Live!, Ellen DeGeneres participates in the phone bank during "One Voice: Somos Live! A Concert For Disaster Relief" at the Universal Studios Lot on October 14, 2017 in Los Angeles, California. Marisa Tomei (Photo by Evans Vestal Ward /NBCUniversal/One Voice: Somos Live!/Getty Images)
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“And because of that, and because the show was cancelled, I was looked at as a failure in this business. So no-one would touch me.”

Ellen also revealed on the podcast that she lost her girlfriend when she was young.

“My girlfriend was killed in a car accident when I was 20 years old,” she said.

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“I wasn’t doing comedy, I think I was probably waitressing some place at the time I was living with her,” she told Dax.

Ellen went on to explain that after her girlfriend was killed, she could no longer afford to live in the apartment they shared together.

“I moved into this tiny basement apartment,” she said.

“I was sleeping on a mattress on the floor that was infested with fleas [and] thought: ‘Why is this beautiful, 20-year-old girl gone and fleas are here?’”

Despite the tragic nature of the accident, her girlfriend’s death led to Ellen’s career in stand-up comedy.

She was writing poetry and songs at the time, but decided to turn to comedy for solace.

Related topics: Ellen DeGeneres, Elton John, entertainment, lesbian, Music, Television, UK, US, US

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