An inspiring father from Texas has become an advocate for his transgender son, Ashur, and has shared some important words about his own journey of acceptance.
Ken Ballard spoke about coming to terms with his son’s gender identity during a Texas 85th Legislative Session.
He explained: “Was I going to be his bully? Was I going to try to put him back in a box that fit the rules of my world at the time?”
“I say it often, I’ve said it before to anyone who has ever heard me talk: I didn’t have this kid to fulfil my dreams, I had this kid to help him realise his. So, I did what a dad does – I loved him. I still love him.“
The father told his moving story because he is now an advocate for trans people in the state and he wants to keep on progressing, rather than heading back.
“I’d like to believe we’re at a point that in a civilized society that none of this no longer matters. The colour of your skin, how a person identifies, what’s on their birth certificate… But these are not those times.
“These are times when they want to build walls between our state and the culture that’s the very fabric of what makes Texas great.
“These are times when we’re trying to tell women what to do with their bodies again; I thought we finished this argument.
“These are times when they want to take away the progress made on benefits to spouses. And these are times when they want to tell my kid what bathroom he can go to,” he added.
He said: “And I have to finish with the immortal words of the Foo Fighters: ‘It’s times like this you give and give again. It’s times like this you love and love again’.”
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