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Ricky Martin writes beautiful letter to his sons

Nick Duffy June 17, 2015
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Singer Ricky Martin has penned an emotional letter to his twin sons.

The Puerto Rican musician, who officially came out as gay in 2010 after years of speculation, is a father to sons Matteo and Valentino, born by a surrogate mother.

The out singer penned a heartfelt letter to his children as part of a series for TIME Magazine – joining a series of famous faces including Pete Wentz of Fall Out Boy, Lee Daniels, and anti-gay Republican politician Rick Santorum.

He wrote:

To Matteo and Valentino,

From the first moment you were in my arms, I have told you how incredibly grateful, honored and blessed I am to be your father. But I don’t believe I ever told you how you changed my life.

For years, the one thing always clear in my heart was that I wanted to be a father. I dreamed of it often and found great strength and inspiration from the possibility.

When this dream became a reality, you can’t imagine the joy and emotions that filled me. I was anxiously awaiting your arrival, counting the days, the hours, the minutes until your birth. I must have read every book out there about parenting, preparing myself for your arrival. Then, finally, the first time I held you in my arms, the world stopped for me.

The most beautiful and indescribable feeling took over. I felt the purest form of love for the first time in my life. You were finally with me, and I knew I was the luckiest and happiest man in the world!

Since that first moment, my journey with you two has been filled with joy and adventure. We have been traveling the world together since you were just two years old. We learn new things everyday, and I am amazed by anything and everything you do. You make me a better person and inspire me to try new things such as write my first children’s book.

Above all, my beautiful sons, your love gave me the strength to live an honest life. A life of courage and transparency, which fills me with great pride and peace. What an amazing gift you have given me, and I’m forever thankful to you.

If there is anything I want you to live with, aside from knowing that you are unconditionally loved and adored by me and our family and friends, it is that you can be YOURSELF. Don’t ever let anyone or anything make you feel like you can’t be your true self.

Whatever you decide to be or do, I will always be by your side. Please take strength and comfort in that knowledge and never forget it.

I love you,
Papi

The singer recently said he is ready to get married.

He said: “For me that paper is important. I also love the romanticism behind it.

“I am single now after seven years. I meet people. I’m fine. I meet very handsome men. I like to have a conversation, looking into someone’s eyes and finding out their sense of humour. I’m not saying you have to be an Adonis, but you have to connect.”

Related topics: adoption, family, Gay, LGBT, Parenting, Ricky Martin, singer, sons, surrogacy

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