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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 22:50:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beatrice, there is a fundimental flaw in your understanding of the adoption system. Social services don&#039;t remove children from their natal family because an unrelated family wants to adopt, they remove children from their natal family because the family is unable or unwilling to provide addiquat cair and support to the child, because they provide a threat to the childs wellbeing, because an expecting mother has chosed to give an unwanted baby up for adoption rather than opting for an abbortion, or because the child has no living relatives able to cair for them.

The child is then placed in cair. At some point it was decided that rather than keeping all the children that end up wards of social services in cair untill they reach 18, it might be a good idear to have them addopted by willing families.

Clearly that is what has happened here (family unable to provide adiquat cair - due to substance abuse habbit on the part of the mother, and health issues on the part of the grandperants - children taken into cair, independant of this a couple applies to addopt, couple where judged best available adoptive family for children, children where placed with couple), as uposed to &#039;couple want to adopt, children removed from natal family for adoption on demand&#039;, which you seem to be sugesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beatrice, there is a fundimental flaw in your understanding of the adoption system. Social services don't remove children from their natal family because an unrelated family wants to adopt, they remove children from their natal family because the family is unable or unwilling to provide addiquat cair and support to the child, because they provide a threat to the childs wellbeing, because an expecting mother has chosed to give an unwanted baby up for adoption rather than opting for an abbortion, or because the child has no living relatives able to cair for them.</p>
<p>The child is then placed in cair. At some point it was decided that rather than keeping all the children that end up wards of social services in cair untill they reach 18, it might be a good idear to have them addopted by willing families.</p>
<p>Clearly that is what has happened here (family unable to provide adiquat cair &#8211; due to substance abuse habbit on the part of the mother, and health issues on the part of the grandperants &#8211; children taken into cair, independant of this a couple applies to addopt, couple where judged best available adoptive family for children, children where placed with couple), as uposed to 'couple want to adopt, children removed from natal family for adoption on demand', which you seem to be sugesting.
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		<title>By: Sister Mary Clarence</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sister Mary Clarence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 02:05:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beatrice, I find it difficult to believe that you could actually believe what you have just written.  Do you seriously believe that all human kind only, do things for their own benefit?  I’m sure they are people who only do so-called ‘charitable acts’ because they get something out of it, but I’m also sure you’ll find that a very large percentage do so because they want to make things better for others, whatever the circumstance may be.

Is this perhaps a reflection on your own views on doing things to help others – you’d only do so if you got something out of it?

I have long taken the view that rather than spending a small fortune on IVF therapy, childless couples should be encouraged to adopt a child rather than attempt to rear one of their own in a test tube.  Thus enabling an unfortunate child whose life chances are looking poor to be nurtured and grow in a loving family unit.

This gay couple, if they are as selfish as you seem to think, could always have gone for the option of making their own designer baby, but instead they have chosen to give an enormous commitment to making life better for this poor unfortunate kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beatrice, I find it difficult to believe that you could actually believe what you have just written.  Do you seriously believe that all human kind only, do things for their own benefit?  I’m sure they are people who only do so-called ‘charitable acts’ because they get something out of it, but I’m also sure you’ll find that a very large percentage do so because they want to make things better for others, whatever the circumstance may be.</p>
<p>Is this perhaps a reflection on your own views on doing things to help others – you’d only do so if you got something out of it?</p>
<p>I have long taken the view that rather than spending a small fortune on IVF therapy, childless couples should be encouraged to adopt a child rather than attempt to rear one of their own in a test tube.  Thus enabling an unfortunate child whose life chances are looking poor to be nurtured and grow in a loving family unit.</p>
<p>This gay couple, if they are as selfish as you seem to think, could always have gone for the option of making their own designer baby, but instead they have chosen to give an enormous commitment to making life better for this poor unfortunate kids.
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		<title>By: Beatrice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beatrice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 15:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been reading all the comments posted on the &quot;Mail&quot; and they range from homophobic to realistic. I would say that your article, especially the title &quot;heroin addict...&quot; is trying to present the situation in as bad a light as the Mail is doing. Why do you have to get down to the &quot;Mail&quot;&#039;s level to make your point? Actually, I feed sorry for this family. Adoption should be the last option, and in this case it is not. Also don&#039;t tell me that any couple, gay or straight, who wants to adopt, does this &quot;to provide a loving environment, etc...&quot;. The truth is adoption is always a selfish move. Human beings need food, water and a roof over their heads to survive, a child is the fruit of love and / or a luxury. People who look to adopt are just selfish. They don&#039;t need a child, they want one. I hope you understand the difference. If this gay couple had a heart, and they are surely selfish for wanting to adopt in the first place, then they would return these poor children to their natural family. If the SS were doing their job, they would be assisting this family, who admittedly needs external help. Blood is thicker than water. That&#039;s all. Don&#039;t get me wrong, I am an atheist, a teetotaler and don&#039;t even smoke (so don&#039;t think I&#039;m writing out of of sympathy for this heroin addict), some of my friends are gay. No bigotry in me. But I just happen to respect children and family bonds.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I've been reading all the comments posted on the "Mail" and they range from homophobic to realistic. I would say that your article, especially the title "heroin addict&#8230;" is trying to present the situation in as bad a light as the Mail is doing. Why do you have to get down to the "Mail"'s level to make your point? Actually, I feed sorry for this family. Adoption should be the last option, and in this case it is not. Also don't tell me that any couple, gay or straight, who wants to adopt, does this "to provide a loving environment, etc&#8230;". The truth is adoption is always a selfish move. Human beings need food, water and a roof over their heads to survive, a child is the fruit of love and / or a luxury. People who look to adopt are just selfish. They don't need a child, they want one. I hope you understand the difference. If this gay couple had a heart, and they are surely selfish for wanting to adopt in the first place, then they would return these poor children to their natural family. If the SS were doing their job, they would be assisting this family, who admittedly needs external help. Blood is thicker than water. That's all. Don't get me wrong, I am an atheist, a teetotaler and don't even smoke (so don't think I'm writing out of of sympathy for this heroin addict), some of my friends are gay. No bigotry in me. But I just happen to respect children and family bonds.
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		<title>By: AdrianT</title>
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		<dc:creator>AdrianT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 09:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, this stinks of another Christian Institute - Daily Mail collaboration, which will go the same way as the Lilian Ladele campaign.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, this stinks of another Christian Institute &#8211; Daily Mail collaboration, which will go the same way as the Lilian Ladele campaign.
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		<title>By: apYrs</title>
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		<dc:creator>apYrs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 11:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder what the Mail&#039;s take on this woman and her parents would have been had the adoptive parents been white middle class conservative heterosexualsis?

Phillips has completed her journey to the dark side and is now a thorough bigot of the worst kind.  Littlejohn remains as always.

And it&#039;s interesting how both say it&#039;s not abiut gay rights BUT....

Hopefully their readership will die off.  Hopefully they will actually have to do somereal work sometime rather than, for large salaries, pandering to bigotry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder what the Mail's take on this woman and her parents would have been had the adoptive parents been white middle class conservative heterosexualsis?</p>
<p>Phillips has completed her journey to the dark side and is now a thorough bigot of the worst kind.  Littlejohn remains as always.</p>
<p>And it's interesting how both say it's not abiut gay rights BUT&#8230;.</p>
<p>Hopefully their readership will die off.  Hopefully they will actually have to do somereal work sometime rather than, for large salaries, pandering to bigotry
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		<title>By: Patrizio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrizio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 14:49:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>why the lovely mummy didn &#039;t think before abt children&#039;s future?..Was she busy to joint the pleasure of drugs?...Why do we need to hit the gay community?
So I find HORRIBLE in a civilized Country like UK to promulgate: a politically cynical, racist and boorish message on a news paper.REALLY rubbish</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>why the lovely mummy didn 't think before abt children's future?..Was she busy to joint the pleasure of drugs?&#8230;Why do we need to hit the gay community?<br />
So I find HORRIBLE in a civilized Country like UK to promulgate: a politically cynical, racist and boorish message on a news paper.REALLY rubbish
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		<title>By: Iris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Iris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 12:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the links, Ivan. This is a part of dear old Melanie &#039;I&#039;m not a homophobe&#039; Phillips vitirol:

&quot;The underlying agenda behind gay adoption, as it is behind the whole gay rights movement, is nothing to do with protecting the rights of gay people&quot;

F**king disgusting. I&#039;ve left a comment telling her so but i doubt it&#039;ll get printed. I really, really hope the Law starts taking action against people who promulgate such hate and whip up bigotry in their readers. I&#039;m depressed reading all those who agree with her lunatic views :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the links, Ivan. This is a part of dear old Melanie 'I'm not a homophobe' Phillips vitirol:</p>
<p>"The underlying agenda behind gay adoption, as it is behind the whole gay rights movement, is nothing to do with protecting the rights of gay people"</p>
<p>F**king disgusting. I've left a comment telling her so but i doubt it'll get printed. I really, really hope the Law starts taking action against people who promulgate such hate and whip up bigotry in their readers. I'm depressed reading all those who agree with her lunatic views <img src='http://www.pinknews.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />
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		<title>By: Ivan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ivan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just when you thought it couldn&#039;t sink any lower:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1132042/RICHARD-LITTLEJOHN-What-kind-selfish-couple-want-adopt-stolen-children.html

If there is any encouragement to be gained from all this it is that, as Littlejohn complains, no other news organisation has taken this up.  The irony of the Daily Mail and its readers finally turning into one of the minorities they so despise is delicious indeed.  

Despite this, the battle is hardly over.  A rabid dog is most dangerous when cornered.  And don&#039;t forget that the progressive and liberal Weimar Republic was suceeded by the Nazis.  Following an economic collapse as it happens.........</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just when you thought it couldn't sink any lower:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1132042/RICHARD-LITTLEJOHN-What-kind-selfish-couple-want-adopt-stolen-children.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1132042/RICHARD-LITTLEJOHN-What-kind-selfish-couple-want-adopt-stolen-children.html</a></p>
<p>If there is any encouragement to be gained from all this it is that, as Littlejohn complains, no other news organisation has taken this up.  The irony of the Daily Mail and its readers finally turning into one of the minorities they so despise is delicious indeed.  </p>
<p>Despite this, the battle is hardly over.  A rabid dog is most dangerous when cornered.  And don't forget that the progressive and liberal Weimar Republic was suceeded by the Nazis.  Following an economic collapse as it happens&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;
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		<title>By: Kay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Daily Mail will only ever give a sensationalised version of the story.  Many mothers who have been separated from their children by whatever circumstances want to get them back.  But there may be good reasons why this woman&#039;s children need more support than she and her parents are able to give.  For example, if she was using or drinking while pregnant, her children may have developmental difficulties requiring a higher level of care.  The Department wouldn&#039;t be able to comment on this.  Maybe if the mother calms down she may be able to have supervised visits at some future time.  The children need a stable home life that the adoptive parents are apparently giving.  When they are older though they may also want to have more information about their biological heritage.  I hope that eventually the mother will be able to think about what is best for the children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Daily Mail will only ever give a sensationalised version of the story.  Many mothers who have been separated from their children by whatever circumstances want to get them back.  But there may be good reasons why this woman's children need more support than she and her parents are able to give.  For example, if she was using or drinking while pregnant, her children may have developmental difficulties requiring a higher level of care.  The Department wouldn't be able to comment on this.  Maybe if the mother calms down she may be able to have supervised visits at some future time.  The children need a stable home life that the adoptive parents are apparently giving.  When they are older though they may also want to have more information about their biological heritage.  I hope that eventually the mother will be able to think about what is best for the children.
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		<title>By: Outraged of Tunbridge Wells</title>
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		<dc:creator>Outraged of Tunbridge Wells</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 04:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Montoya - What&#039;s the bets you would be the first to complain if people attacked a white child going to black parents? Chip? Shoulder? McCains? Large bag of?

The point of this story that this sensationalist rag of a website totally, (as usual), missed was the fact that the council had threatened the grandparents with not being able to see their kids again if they didn&#039;t comply. Had this been a situation where the children were going to a conventional heterosexual couple, the papers wouldn&#039;t have even sniffed at it. This case has nothing to do with gay adoption, and everything to do with local authority bullying and railroading, and should be seen in that light. Whatever the profile of the adoptive parents, they have been approved, so that factor is irrelevant. Edinburgh Council&#039;s Social Services needs a rocket up it&#039;s backside for it&#039;s reprehensible attitude to people struggling to bring up kids in a difficult situation. It&#039;s a shame outfits like this didn&#039;t spend a bit more time investigating the likes of Baby P etc. than stirring up controversy like this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Montoya &#8211; What's the bets you would be the first to complain if people attacked a white child going to black parents? Chip? Shoulder? McCains? Large bag of?</p>
<p>The point of this story that this sensationalist rag of a website totally, (as usual), missed was the fact that the council had threatened the grandparents with not being able to see their kids again if they didn't comply. Had this been a situation where the children were going to a conventional heterosexual couple, the papers wouldn't have even sniffed at it. This case has nothing to do with gay adoption, and everything to do with local authority bullying and railroading, and should be seen in that light. Whatever the profile of the adoptive parents, they have been approved, so that factor is irrelevant. Edinburgh Council's Social Services needs a rocket up it's backside for it's reprehensible attitude to people struggling to bring up kids in a difficult situation. It's a shame outfits like this didn't spend a bit more time investigating the likes of Baby P etc. than stirring up controversy like this.
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		<title>By: Zeke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zeke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 02:21:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love how these raging homophobes ALWAYS start their bay bashing statements out with &quot;I&#039;m not anti-gay or anything but...&quot;.

How about a simple, &quot;Thank you for making all the sacrifices it takes to take care of my children since I and the childrens&#039; father (the supposedly perfect &quot;mum and dad&quot; senario) were too selfish, careless, ignorant and no good to take care of them themselves&quot;?

How about a bit of gratefulness and graciousness and a little less ignorance and hatefullness?

It makes my blood boil to hear scumbags like this looking down their noses at gay people who have to do everything twice as well to get half as much credit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love how these raging homophobes ALWAYS start their bay bashing statements out with "I'm not anti-gay or anything but&#8230;".</p>
<p>How about a simple, "Thank you for making all the sacrifices it takes to take care of my children since I and the childrens' father (the supposedly perfect "mum and dad" senario) were too selfish, careless, ignorant and no good to take care of them themselves"?</p>
<p>How about a bit of gratefulness and graciousness and a little less ignorance and hatefullness?</p>
<p>It makes my blood boil to hear scumbags like this looking down their noses at gay people who have to do everything twice as well to get half as much credit.
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 00:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One day we will look back at these stories that the Daily Hate insist on churning out and say &#039;did people really get away with printing that stuff?&#039; Times they are a changing and this country is going only one way, and it&#039;s not in the direction of the Daily Mail - a paper propped up by an older, narrow-minded readership whose views will die out with them. 

On the good news front, Iceland has a lesbian PM, Ireland is proposing a civil partnership bill and we&#039;ve had 12 years of progressive laws from a labour government. We&#039;ve come a long way, but stories like this do remind us of how much more hatred there is to fight against. We need stuff like this to get us politically agitated again. Peter Thatchell and Stonewall can&#039;t be the only voices of outrage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One day we will look back at these stories that the Daily Hate insist on churning out and say 'did people really get away with printing that stuff?' Times they are a changing and this country is going only one way, and it's not in the direction of the Daily Mail &#8211; a paper propped up by an older, narrow-minded readership whose views will die out with them. </p>
<p>On the good news front, Iceland has a lesbian PM, Ireland is proposing a civil partnership bill and we've had 12 years of progressive laws from a labour government. We've come a long way, but stories like this do remind us of how much more hatred there is to fight against. We need stuff like this to get us politically agitated again. Peter Thatchell and Stonewall can't be the only voices of outrage.
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		<title>By: Gert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 22:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is fairly rare that drug addicts&#039; kids are taken into care and even rarer that they are put up for adoption. It is widely accepted in child placement that the best placement is usually with biological family, if at all possible. Given that the decision to put a child up for adoption is taken quite separately and long before the decision on placement, the &#039;mother&#039; and the grandparents really ought to shut up, because the lot of them have been found to be woefully inadequate as parents. Oh, and I think, at least in England, the decision to put a child up for adoption has to go through the courts, so it isn&#039;t a whimsical administrative decision, and it certainly isn&#039;t a decision taken in order to pander to gay rights or whatever.

Also the process to become adoptive parents is unbelievably tough. All sorts of character references, psychological profiling and so on. Nowadays anyway. A friend of mine who is about 50 was regularly beaten by her adoptive parents (Catholic) as a punishment for her mother&#039;s sin. And I read a similar story about someone else on a blog recently.

Now these children will have a chance of happiness and making something of their lives. 

FWIW I&#039;m straight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is fairly rare that drug addicts' kids are taken into care and even rarer that they are put up for adoption. It is widely accepted in child placement that the best placement is usually with biological family, if at all possible. Given that the decision to put a child up for adoption is taken quite separately and long before the decision on placement, the 'mother' and the grandparents really ought to shut up, because the lot of them have been found to be woefully inadequate as parents. Oh, and I think, at least in England, the decision to put a child up for adoption has to go through the courts, so it isn't a whimsical administrative decision, and it certainly isn't a decision taken in order to pander to gay rights or whatever.</p>
<p>Also the process to become adoptive parents is unbelievably tough. All sorts of character references, psychological profiling and so on. Nowadays anyway. A friend of mine who is about 50 was regularly beaten by her adoptive parents (Catholic) as a punishment for her mother's sin. And I read a similar story about someone else on a blog recently.</p>
<p>Now these children will have a chance of happiness and making something of their lives. </p>
<p>FWIW I'm straight.
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		<title>By: wossname</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 20:52:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I&#039;ve quietly been going down the comments list and giving marks for content.  Keeps me happy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I've quietly been going down the comments list and giving marks for content.  Keeps me happy
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		<title>By: Flapjack</title>
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		<dc:creator>Flapjack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 20:45:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Folks - I think grrr&#039;s comment was intended to be tongue-in-cheek. I couldn&#039;t see even the most rabid Daily Mail reader taking that seriously. Some folks here need a course in troll-spotting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Folks &#8211; I think grrr's comment was intended to be tongue-in-cheek. I couldn't see even the most rabid Daily Mail reader taking that seriously. Some folks here need a course in troll-spotting!
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		<title>By: Rob Fox</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob Fox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 20:31:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Grrr appears to have less-than-zero understanding of the devastating consequences of heroin addiction on all those involved, especially impressionable and vulnerable children.

Heroin has been widely recognised as a highly addictive drug for a long time now - that&#039;s one of the reasons it&#039;s a class A drug. 

It&#039;s not an addiction that anyone can just &#039;slide&#039; into by accident, like, say, prescription tranquiliser addiction, without knowing that EVERY time they go to score they&#039;re committing a crime.

It&#039;s also a very expensive habit to maintain - where does the money come from? Well, typically, more crime, including theft and prostitution. Maintaining a smack habit without bringing your kids into frequent contact with some pretty unsavoury characters seems unlikely at best...

Is that really preferable to their being cared for by a same-sex couple - against whom there are NO allegations of parental inadequacy, except that they are gay?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Grrr appears to have less-than-zero understanding of the devastating consequences of heroin addiction on all those involved, especially impressionable and vulnerable children.</p>
<p>Heroin has been widely recognised as a highly addictive drug for a long time now &#8211; that's one of the reasons it's a class A drug. </p>
<p>It's not an addiction that anyone can just 'slide' into by accident, like, say, prescription tranquiliser addiction, without knowing that EVERY time they go to score they're committing a crime.</p>
<p>It's also a very expensive habit to maintain &#8211; where does the money come from? Well, typically, more crime, including theft and prostitution. Maintaining a smack habit without bringing your kids into frequent contact with some pretty unsavoury characters seems unlikely at best&#8230;</p>
<p>Is that really preferable to their being cared for by a same-sex couple &#8211; against whom there are NO allegations of parental inadequacy, except that they are gay?
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		<title>By: lizi</title>
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		<dc:creator>lizi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 19:57:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>why people still read the daily fail i have no idea, they&#039;re defending the mother but why?? if she&#039;d been a fit parent then she would still have her children. why should she have a say in who she thinks should raise her kids when she&#039;s obviously spent more time getting herself into the state she is than taking care of them?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>why people still read the daily fail i have no idea, they're defending the mother but why?? if she'd been a fit parent then she would still have her children. why should she have a say in who she thinks should raise her kids when she's obviously spent more time getting herself into the state she is than taking care of them?
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		<title>By: Dominick J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dominick J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 18:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Montoya you need to Drink the coffee you&#039;re smelling!  Get real.  The only people who twist facts are the Homophobes and religious bigots, which in quite a few cases are basically the same thing OH and the very ignorant too!  AND that&#039;s in ALL cases!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Montoya you need to Drink the coffee you're smelling!  Get real.  The only people who twist facts are the Homophobes and religious bigots, which in quite a few cases are basically the same thing OH and the very ignorant too!  AND that's in ALL cases!
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		<title>By: commanderthor</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 17:38:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Montoya, what truth is there in claiming the gay parents are unsuitable?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Montoya, what truth is there in claiming the gay parents are unsuitable?
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		<title>By: Niko Westmuellen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Niko Westmuellen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 17:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is first and foremost a tragic story. Tragic for the mother, who is entitled to her own testament be it against gays or any other than has, justifiably or not, been allowed care of her children. What the mother hasn&#039;t done is linked the consequences of her addiction to the loss of the kids. Additionally, addiction is a family illness and an illness of the addict (ie the mother). Thus, the whole family unit needs to deal with the illness and it can take a long time for recovery to manifest. Patently, acceptance of responsibility first and foremost lies with the mother, then the family but the children shouldn&#039;t have to wait, perhaps in vain for a recovery to emerge. Children have a small window of opportunity to be nurtured loved. Gay men are quite capable of offering that. to believe contrary to this, is homophobic, unrecovered (bigotry is a form of hatred which for addicts is a major symptom). The Daily Mail is an enabler of hatred, I&#039;m glad it&#039;s around, just to show how inappropriate its stances are and as such should it speaks for itself. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is first and foremost a tragic story. Tragic for the mother, who is entitled to her own testament be it against gays or any other than has, justifiably or not, been allowed care of her children. What the mother hasn't done is linked the consequences of her addiction to the loss of the kids. Additionally, addiction is a family illness and an illness of the addict (ie the mother). Thus, the whole family unit needs to deal with the illness and it can take a long time for recovery to manifest. Patently, acceptance of responsibility first and foremost lies with the mother, then the family but the children shouldn't have to wait, perhaps in vain for a recovery to emerge. Children have a small window of opportunity to be nurtured loved. Gay men are quite capable of offering that. to believe contrary to this, is homophobic, unrecovered (bigotry is a form of hatred which for addicts is a major symptom). The Daily Mail is an enabler of hatred, I'm glad it's around, just to show how inappropriate its stances are and as such should it speaks for itself. <img src='http://www.pinknews.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />
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