Obama urges lesbian, gay patience overturning ‘unjust laws’

Remarks by at the Month Reception, June 29, 2009

THE PRESIDENT: Hello, everybody. Hello, hello, hello. (.) Hey! Good to see you. (.) I’m waiting for FLOTUS here. FLOTUS always more than .

MRS. : No, you move too slow. (.)

THE : It is great to see everybody here today and they’re just — I’ve got a of in the room, but there are some I want to especially acknowledge. First of all, somebody who helped ensure that we are in the , Steve Hildebrand. Please give Steve a big round of . (.) Where’s Steve? He’s around here somewhere. (.)

The new chair of the Export-Import Bank, . (.) Where’s Fred? There’s Fred. Good to see you, Fred. Our Director of the Institute of Sciences at DOE, . Where’s John? (.) A couple of special — Bishop Gene Robinson. Where’s Gene? (.) Hey, Gene. Michael Guest is here. (.) Jim is here. (.) Oregon is here. (.) All of you are here. ( and .) Welcome to your . (.) So.

MEMBER: (Inaudible.) (.)

THE : Somebody asked from the Bedroom here. (.) You knew I was from Chicago too. (.)

It’s good to see so many and familiar , and I deeply appreciate the support I’ve received from so many of you. Michelle appreciates it and I want you to know that you have our support as well. (.) And you have my thanks for the work you do every day in pursuit of

on behalf of the millions of in this country who work hard and care about their communities — and who are , , , or . (.)

Now this , I don’t need to tell you, is incredibly difficult, although I think it’s important to consider the extraordinary progress that we have made. There are to overturn and unfair practices to stop. And though we’ve made progress, there are still , perhaps or even family and loved ones, who still hold fast to worn arguments and old ; who fail to see your families like their families; and who would deny you the rights that most Americans take for granted. And I know this is painful and I know it can be heartbreaking.

And yet all of you continue, leading by the force of the arguments you make but also by the power of the example that you set in your own lives — as and , as PTA and leaders in the community. And that’s important, and I’m glad that so many families could join us today. (.) For we know that progress depends not only on changing laws but also changing hearts. And that real, transformative change never begins in Washington (cellphone “quacks”). Whose duck is back there? (.)

MRS. : It’s a duck.

THE : There’s a duck quacking in there somewhere. (.) Where do you guys get these ring tones, by the way? (.) I’m just curious. (.)

Indeed, that’s the story of the movement for and — not just for those who are , but for all those in our history who’ve been denied the of ; who’ve been told that the full and opportunities of this country were closed to them. It’s the story of progress sought by those who started off with little influence or power; by who brought about change through quiet, personal acts of compassion and and sometimes defiance wherever and whenever they could.

That’s the story of a who’s here today, , who was fired — (.) Frank was fired from his as an astronomer for the simply because he was . And in 1965, he a outside the , which was at the time both an of but also an of extraordinary . And so we are proud of you, Frank, and we are grateful to you for your . (.)

It’s the story of the , which took place 40 years ago this week, when a group of — with few and fewer supporters — decided they’d had enough and refused to accept a policy of wanton . And who were at those are here today. Imagine the journey that they’ve traveled.

It’s the story of an that decimated a community — and the who came to support one another and save one another; and who continue to fight this ; and who demonstrated before the world that different kinds of families can show the same compassion and support in a time of need — that we all share the capacity to .

So this story, this , continues today — for even as we extraordinary as a nation, we cannot — and will not — put aside issues of basic . (.) We seek an America in which no one feels the pain of based on who you are or who you .

And I know that many in this room don’t believe that progress has come fast enough, and I understand that. It’s not for me to tell you to be patient, any more than it was for others to counsel patience to who were petitioning for a half-century ago.

But I say this: We have made progress and we will make more. And I want you to know that I expect and hope to be judged not by words, not by I’ve made, but by the that my administration keeps. And by the time you receive — (.) We’ve been in office now. I suspect that by the time this administration is over, I think you guys will have pretty good about the administration. (.)

Now while there is much more work to do, we can point to important changes we’ve already put in place since coming into office. I’ve signed a memorandum requiring all agencies to extend as many federal benefits as possible to families as law allows.

And these are benefits that will make a real difference for and , who are so often treated as if their families don’t exist. And I’d like to note that one of the key in helping us develop this policy is , our director of the Management, who is here today. And I want to thank . (.)

I’ve called on to repeal the so-called Defense of to help end — () — to help end against same- in this country. Now I want to add we have a duty to uphold existing law, but I believe we must do so in a way that does not exacerbate old divides. And fulfilling this duty in upholding the law in no way lessens my commitment to reversing this law. I’ve made that clear.

I’m also urging to pass the Benefits and Obligations , which will the full range of benefits, including healthcare, to and their children. (.) My administration is also working hard to pass an employee bill and hate-crimes bill, and we’re making progress on both fronts. (.) Judy and Dennis Shepard, as well as their son Logan, are here today. I with Judy in the in May — () — and I assured her and I assured all of you that we are going to pass an inclusive hate-crimes bill into law, a bill named for their son Matthew. (.)

In addition, my administration is committed to rescinding the discriminatory ban on entry to the based on status. (.) The just concluded a review of a to repeal this entry ban, which is a first and very big step toward ending this policy.

And we all know that / continues to be a public threat in many communities, including right here in the District of . And that’s why this past Saturday, on National Testing Day, I was proud once again to encourage all Americans to know their status and get tested the way Michelle and I know our status and got tested. (.)

And finally, I want to say a word about “don’t ask, don’t tell.” As I said before — I’ll say it again — I believe “don’t ask, don’t tell” doesn’t contribute to our . (.) In fact, I believe preventing patriotic Americans from serving their country weakens our . (.)

Now, my administration is already working with the and of the House and the on how we’ll go about ending this policy, which will require an of .

Someday, I’m confident, we’ll look back at this and ask why it generated such angst, but as , in a time of war, I do have a responsibility to see that this change is administered in a practical way and a way that takes over the long term. That’s why I’ve asked the secretary of Defense and the chairman of the Joint to develop a plan for how to thoroughly implement a repeal.

I know that every day that passes without a resolution is a deep to those who continue to be discharged under this policy — patriots who often possess critical and years of training and who’ve served this country well. But what I hope is that these cases underscore the urgency of reversing this policy not just because it’s the right thing to do, but because it is essential for our .

Now even as we take these steps, we must recognize that real progress depends not only on the laws we change but, as I said before, on the hearts we open. For if we’re honest with ourselves, we’ll acknowledge that there are good and decent in this country who don’t yet fully embrace their — not yet.

That’s why I’ve spoken about these issues not just in front of you, but in front of unlikely audiences — in front of African American church , in front of other audiences that have traditionally resisted these changes. And that’s what I’ll continue to do so. That’s how we’ll shift . That’s how we’ll honor the of leaders like Frank and many others who have refused to accept anything less than full and equal .

Now 40 years ago, in the of at a place called the Inn, a group of , including a few who are here today, as I said, defied an unjust policy and awakened a nascent movement.

It was the middle of the night. The police stormed the bar, which was known for being one of the few spots where it was safe to be in New York. Now raids like this were entirely ordinary. Because it was considered obscene and illegal to be , no establishments for and could get licenses to operate. The of these businesses, combined with the vulnerability of the community itself, meant places like , and the inside, were often the victims of and .

Now ordinarily, the would come and the customers would disperse. But on this night, something was different. There are many accounts of what happened, and much has been to history, but what we do know is this: didn’t leave. They stood their ground. And over the course of several nights they declared that they had seen enough in their time.

This was an against not just what they experienced that night, but what they had experienced their whole lives. And as with so many movements, it was also something more: It was at this defining moment that these folks who had been marginalized up to challenge not just how the world saw them, but also how they saw themselves.

As we’ve seen so many times in history, once that takes hold there is little that can stand in its way. (.) And the riots at gave way to , and gave way to a movement, and the movement gave way to a that continues to this day. It continues when a fights for her right to at the hospital bedside of a she loves. It continues when a is called a name for being different and says, “So what if I am?” It continues in your work and in your , in your fight to freely live your lives to the fullest.

In one year after the , a few hundred and and their supporters gathered at the Inn to a historic march for . But when they reached Central Park, the few hundred that began the march had swelled to 5,000. Something had changed, and it would never change back.

The is when these folks protested at 40 years ago no one could have imagined that you — or, for that matter, I () — would be standing here today. (.) So we are all witnesses to monumental changes in this country.

That should give us hope, but we cannot rest. We must continue to do our part to make progress — step by step, law by law, mind by changing mind. And I want you to know that in this task I will not only be your friend, I will continue to be an and a and a who fights with you and for you.

Thanks very much, everybody. bless you. (.) Thank you. It’s a little stuffed in here. We’re going to open — we opened up that door. We’re going to walk this way, and then we’re going to come around and we’ll see some of you over there, all right? (.) But out there. (.)

But thank you very much, all, for being here. Enjoy the . Thank you. (.) ###

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Uproar in DC as Same-Sex Marriage Gains Washington Post

After the , enraged African American ministers stormed the outside the and vowed that they will work to oust the who supported the bill, which was sponsored by (D-At Large). They caused such an that and D.C. police were called in to clear the .

Yesterday’s action could be a precursor to a later this year over whether to legalize same- in the city. “There is no turning back,” said , who plans to introduce a broader bill in a few months.

Barry, who said he supports rights and civil , warned after the that the District could erupt if the council does not proceed slowly on same- .

“All is going to lose,” Barry said. “We may have a civil war. The black community is just adamant against this.”

Mayor Adrian M. (D) has said he will sign the bill recognizing same- marriages performed elsewhere. The council’s action puts the matter before , which under the has 30 days to review District . The bill could present the House and with their biggest test on the same- issue since approved the Defense of in 1996. …

“I am representing my ,” said Barry, who later told reporters that “98 percent of my are black, and we don’t have but a of openly residents.”

Civic Philip , who is openly and lives in Ward 8, called Barry’s remarks offensive. “He of all , coming out of the movement, should understand the need to fight for the rights of all to be protected,” said.

and Jim Graham (D-Ward 1) are the two openly of the council, and made it clear that he took offense at Barry’s stance.

“This issue is whether or not our , on a , view me and Jim Graham as your equals,” said, “if we are permitted the same and obligations as our . So this is personal. This is acknowledging our families as much as we acknowledge yours.”

Barry, visibly upset, fired back that he has been a supporter of rights since the .

“I understand this is personal to you and Mr. Graham. I understand because I have been discriminated against,” Barry said. “. . . I resent Mr. saying either you are a or against , as though this particular represents all of that.”

replied: “Your position is bigoted. I don’t think you are.”

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Same-Sex Marriage & the Family

has been at the center of the over granting to same- .

became the first state in the nation to grant those rights in 2000 when it adopted civil . Four years later, became the first state to give and full rights.

And last year, ’s determined that civil didn’t go far enough and ordered , instead.

As part of annual Law Day , on 30, 2009, invited a and three justices who have participated in these to talk about rulings from their respective courts.

The panelists are: , a Middlebury who argued the case; retired Justice ; Justice Robert ; and Justice Joette Katz.

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Royal College: “there is no sound scientific evidence that sexual orientation can be changed’

The Royal shares the concern of both the American and the American that positions espoused by bodies like the National Association for Research and Therapy of ( ) in the are not supported by . There is no sound scientific evidence that can be changed. Furthermore so-called treatments of as recommended by create a setting in which and can flourish.

The Royal holds the view that , and should be regarded as valued of society who have exactly similar as all other . This includes equal access to care, the involved in a civil , the involved in procreating and , to practice a as a or , from or in any and a right to protection from therapies that are potentially damaging, particularly those that purport to change .

In 1973 the American concluded there was no scientific evidence that was a disorder and removed it from its diagnostic glossary of . The International Classification of of the World Organisation followed suit in 1992.

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California gay rights timeline

As and have fought for rights and won elected office, has shifted. Back in 1977, singer of Florida was leading a -based campaign against , claiming they were sinners and a threat to children and family life. When pollsters asked more than 1,000 to , in their homes – whether they agreed with her, 45 percent said yes. Emotions still run high on the issue, but more now say they know and , and approve of same- . The shift is particularly pronounced among residents ages 18 to 29. Following are notable in the ’s rights movement.

1951: The , one of the first in the , is incorporated in Los Angeles to combat oppression of .

1955: The Daughters of Bilitis, a national , is founded in .

1961: José Sarria runs for the Board of Supervisors, becoming what is believed to be the nation’s first openly candidate for public office.

1975: 489, by Willie Brown, decriminalizes performed in private by consenting in California.

1977: The overwhelmingly votes to define civil as a contract between a man and a . later becomes the first openly person to be elected to public office in California, winning a seat on the Board of Supervisors.

1978: Voters 6, the , named for Sen. John , which would have barred , and their supporters from teaching in public schools.

1979: Gov. issues an barring against based on .

1984: Gov. 1, the first bill that would have banned on the basis of .

1989: Bill 202, by Sen. Diane Watson, requires law enforcement agencies to report , including those in which a motivating factor is the victim’s .

1991: Gov. Pete Wilson 101, by Terry , prohibiting against in the workplace.

1992: Wilson ’s narrower measure, 2601, which adds protections to the Labor Code.

1994: Sheila Kuehl is elected to the Assembly, becoming the ’s first openly or member.

1999: 26, by Assemblywoman Carole Migden, creates the first statewide domestic registry, allowing the partners of to receive benefits.

1999: 1001, by Assembly Speaker Antonio Villaraigosa, adds to anti- of the state Fair and Housing .

1999: 537, by Assemblywoman Sheila Kuehl, makes it illegal to harass students in public schools because of .

2000: Voters pass Proposition 22, which banned same- .

2001: Migden’s 25 greatly expands the rights of to include benefits through , death benefits, sick leave, tax deductions and of stepchildren.

2002: The nation’s first legislative , , and Caucus is formed in the Legislature. It comprises Assembly Kuehl, Migden, Jackie Goldberg and Christine Kehoe.

2002: John Laird and are elected to the Assembly, becoming the first openly men in the Legislature and of the Caucus.

2003: 205 by Assemblywoman Jackie Goldberg extends to registered nearly all the same provided to opposite- spouses in California.

2004: Mayor Gavin Newsom orders city officials to issue licenses to same- . More than 4,000 receive licenses and are married before the California orders a halt to the process until its can be determined.

2004: 2208, by Assemblywoman Christine Kehoe, bars providers from discriminating against .

2005: Gov. 849, by , which would have legalized same- . Schwarzenegger urged rights to wait for on Proposition 22 or ask the voters to repeal the ban.

2008: In a 4-3 decision May 16, the California rules that the state gives and the right to marry. On Nov. 4, voters approve Proposition 8, the ban that’s now being challenged.

Sources: Pew Forum on and Public Life; the American ; Encyclopedia Britannica; World Book Encyclopedia; Bee news archives.

Bee research/Aurelio Rojas, Pete Basofin and Micaela Massimino.

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Bid to convert Scottish civil partnerships to marriages

 

(Edinburgh) A to change Scotland’s civil law to will be considered by a

Scotland approved in 2005.  Like a similar law in , it gave same- all of the of but without the name. Since the law …

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Ohio Supreme Court Allows Custody Decision to Stand in Lambda Legal Case Representing Lesbian Mother

‘The Court has expressly shut down arguments that Ohio’s amendment impacts and , rights, and responsibilities’

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(Columbus, OH, January 5, 2009) –The of Ohio last week let stand an ruling affirming the enforceability of a court-approved agreement in a case involving mothers.

“The Court has expressly shut down arguments that Ohio’s amendment impacts and , rights, and responsibilities,”said Camilla Taylor, Senior in ’s in Chicago. “The Court correctly declined an to treat and Ohio differently from other families, and to deprive the children of these families of the protections and support other children receive.”

represents Therese Leach in her fight to uphold a court-approved agreement signed by both her and her former , Denise , in 2001. After their son was born in 1996, both women parented him. In order to ensure that Therese had a protected legal with the child, the signed a agreement. &;Such agreements were approved by the Ohio in the 2001 In re Bonfield case in which participated. &;

The decision comes after argued, at a , and the Ohio for the Tenth District, that Ohio’s limiting to a man and a invalidated the court approved she originally sought with Leach. All three courts brushed aside ’s arguments, ruling that court-approved custody agreements cannot be ignored or unilaterally undone by one of the . In July 2008, asked the Ohio to hear her case, and urged the Court to refuse. Today’s order from the high court is the on the matter.

The case is In re J.D.F.

Camilla Taylor, Senior Attorney in ’s in Chicago is counsel on the appeal. She is joined by co-counsel LeeAnn Massucci of Massucci &; Kline LLC and Thomas Schmidt of Gahanna, Ohio.

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No timeline to permit gay marriage in NJ

TRENTON — reiterated their long-term support for allowing same- to marry in New Jersey but didn’t immediate action on a call today by a state review commission to scrap civil in favor of . &;The Review Commission said in a 79-page report issued today that state law should be amended to allow — and quickly, saying “any delay in will harm all the of New Jersey.”&;

The commission said New Jersey law, drafted in response to a state order, allowing to enter civil “encourages of same- and their children” and that some employers and hospitals don’t afford the same rights as married ones.&;

“Even if, given enough time, civil are understood to provide equivalent to those provided in , they send a message to the public: same- are not equal to opposite- married in the eyes of the law, that they are ‘not good enough’ to warrant true ,” says the report.&; &;See No timeline to permit gay marriage in NJ
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