Gay sailor’s family blames military after his death

of a slain sailor are calling the 29-year-old’s death a .

Roy of said her , August III, had complained a year before about being harassed for being .

Roy said she advised to report and document the incidents, but she said the military did little to help.

“He went to the to serve and protect,” she said in an interview with ’s KFDM News, “he didn’t get protected at all.”

Roy told The that the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy discouraged her from asking for help.

“That is just stupid because it tells them they have no one to speak to,” she said.

The 29-year-old was found dead Tuesday at , north of . Roy said the family was told that was shot , had his , his mouth , and body burned.

The family plans to hold July 10 in Houston.

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We’re Deer. We’re Queer. Get Used to It.

in humans is a - that gets plenty of coverage, but same-gender in animals rarely makes . The of a new Norwegian exhibition on behavior in the animal kingdom hope to call attention to the often ignored subject.

always come up with the argument that is somehow against . And that’s not true,” said Petter Bøckman, the academic advisor for the “Against ?” exhibition at the Norwegian Natural of the .

Through , , texts, and specimens ranging in size from to enormous , visitors can learn about a small selection of animals.

have observed behavior in 1,500 animal species, said Bøckman. Take, for instance, bonobos, one of our closest and perhaps the most well-known animals. “They’re known to be rampantly ,” he said. , , West , and giraffes have all-. Among black-headed gulls, estimate that one in ten pairs is comprised of . Same- have been known to have long and raise chicks.

is most widespread among animals with a complex life. It functions as a kind of social for bonobos, who use to diffuse —a marked difference from other that solve with . also a social role among other , such as big horn and lions.

But researchers have no idea what the advantage is, if any, of behavior among dragonflies, , or, as observed at least once, two male octopuses of different species. See We’re Deer. We’re Queer. Get Used to It.
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Homophobic conference to promote gay “cure”.

– ‘Anglican ‘- to promote and&;dangerous&; “cure”.

his weekend in (UK) The Anglican Mainstream Organisation are holding a mongering anti conference called &; the City. The Anglican are the first organisation of the week to be awarded the title for their conference where will the use of Reparative Therapy which aims to “cure” of .

For anyone who has seen the film But I’m A Cheerleader (about a girl whose send her away to the Camp in order to cure her of her lesbianity) the conference reads like a sick .

The - Christian conference claims to be: “Ideal for , rabbis, psychologists, therapists, educators and others concerned about the of confronting us in today’s society, including mentoring the sexually broken, the of culture, pornography, the and , and , the family and .&; There will be a special on how and / can respond biblically and pastorally to those struggling with unwanted SSA (same- attraction).”

The organisers of the event are determined to whip up about and portray life as a which is . The Anglican feel that the UK is “capitulating” to the .

They also seem disgruntled with the progressive brought into protect LGBTs and are a living, breathing example of why such protective needs to be in place. They say: “Given the present cultural endorsement and legal protection of these ‘’, we will soon be in a situation where there is no turning back: the damage will be complete.”

The Anglican promote Affect Focused Therapy (AFT) and Reparative Therapy as the way forward in “curing” ; who they prefer to call the “sexually broken” or “sufferers”.

They say: “AFT is transferable across the board to all sorts of deeply-ingrained patterns of dysfunctionality, , brokenness and pain.”

Reparative Therapy is a dangerous practise which seeks to change , and views as a mental disorder.

Joseph Nicolisi a leading proponent of Repartive Therapy and author of “, and the Practical Work of Reparative Therapy” will be speaking at the confererence. The Anglican say: “Joe has a proven track record over almost 30 years in helping the world.”

The American have stated that “scientific evidence does not show that conversion (Reparative) therapy works and it could do more harm than good. Changing one’s is not simply a matter of changing ones behaviour. It would require altering ones emotional, romantic and sexual and restructuring ones self concept and social identity.”

News of this conference is particulary worrying especially after the recent report from The University College and St. Georges University , which suggested that many UK professionals had attempted to change their client’s .

The Anglican feel that Reparative Therapy “needs to be far better known”.

However, the Lesbian and Gay Foundation urge gay, lesbian and bisexual people to access Gay Affirmative counselling services and therapy.

At the core of Affirmative Therapy (GAT)&;is the there is nothing inherently wrong or bad with being . Instead your counsellor will affirm your rather than trying to convince you to alter or change it. The Pink Therapy website is an excellent resource for questions to ask potential counsellors.

A for the and Foundation said: “It is worrying to hear of this conference aimed at promoting such a deplorable and dangerous approach to therapy, and giving a platform to ideas. We encourage to access Affirmative Therapy, rather than internalise the beliefs of others.”

Stand Up to : Should a conference which promotes and a harmful approach to therapy be allowed to take place in the UK? The Anglican have not disclosed the location of the conference on their website, but it has been reported that the anti conference will take place at a Christian run conference centre called the Emmanuel Centre&; (9-23 Marsham Street, SW1P 3DW) in the City of Westminster on 24/25th.

To lobby Westminster Councillors to stop the conference, or at the very least question the methods it is promoting, click here.

If you would like to talk to someone about your call The LGF Helpline on 0845 3 30 30 30. If you think you would like to access the Face 2 Face counselling service at the LGF&;call the Helpline and ask for an Application for Counselling form. All LGF counsellors use Affirmative Therapy.

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IGLHRC Asks the Iraqi Government to Protect Gay People

NEW YORK, 17, 2009&; –&; The International and Commission () has sent a letter to the of , Wijdan , requesting that she takes specific to protect , , and () and prevent against those perceived to be .

’s letter, written to coincide with Ms. ’s visit to Washington D.C., responds to a recent wave of against Iraqi perceived to be .

Just hours before sent its letter, an identified as “Fazilat” (Virtue) posted flyers threatening with death on walls in the neighbourhood of .

The flyers, distributed on 17, list the of some of the would-be and states that “we will soon punish all you .” &;Residents of say the who were outed in these fliers have gone into hiding.

Previous acts of anti- in include the 2, 2009 murder of in the neighbourhood of .

An unidentified local official described these men as “sexual (Monharef Jensiyan) who were killed by of their tribe to restore their family .”

Prior to death, the men’s had disowned them and they were also thrown out of their tribes. So far no one has claimed their bodies and the government has not launched an investigation into the case.

These took place one week after Iraqi unearthed the bodies of 4 men killed by in on March 25.

The words “pervert” and “” (jaravah: a to describe ) were written on the of the victims. &;As part of this of , a in that was frequented by men has also been burnt down.

Apart from these cases, has also received reports of the arrest, , and murder of several of the group Iraqi- amid a government on -friendly businesses across .

Several other reports indicate of -judicial of across during the past few months.

In response to these violent , on 8, 2009, and Watch submitted an urgent appeal to the Special Procedures of the to ask for an investigation.

is also working closely with the D.C.-based Council on Global to bring the plight of and to the attention of U.S. , who will be meeting with the next week.

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Shadowy Group Threatens to Kill Gays in Iraq.&; A shadowy group has posted around the Iraqi capital’s main Shiite working-class district of naming alleged on a list and threatening to kill them.&; ( 24 News, 17, 2009)

Member of Iraqi Gay Group Pleads for Help “Before It’s Too Late”.&; Is there anyone to help me before it’s too late?&; That is the question asked by a member of Iraqi- in , who says he is to be executed, in a letter released at the weekend by Iraqi- in . (UK News, 6, 2009)

Iraqi Gays Sentenced to Death for Their Sexuality Face Execution.&; More than 100 in are facing – and some of them are believed to have been convicted of the ‘crime’ of being , the UK-based Iraqi- group revealed this afternoon.&; According to Hili of Iraqi-, the Iraqi plan to start executing them in batches of 20 from this week.&; (UK News, March 30, 2009)

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So You’re Dead? That Won’t Stop the Debt Collector From Trying To RIp Off Your Survivors


Please pass this message along&; to any and all and post it wherever you can.

The just reported on a company that tries to collect owned by dead by contacting sruvivors.

That’s right: Your dies and you get a call from a nice kindly person working for &;http://www.dcmservices.com> asking if you “want to settle the balance on a credit card or , or perhaps make that final utility bill or cellphone payment.” See So You’re Dead? That Won’t Stop the Debt Collector &;http://www..com/2009/03/04/business/04dead.html?_r=1&;hp>

&;THe Tiems reprots:&; “or some , paying is pragmatic. The law varies from state to state, but generally are not required to pay a dead relative’s bills from their own . ” So you are not under any to pay for a ’s .

But tries to sweet talk you into paying them for the ’s bills.&; THe Tiems reports: “, which began in 1999 as a law firm, recently acquired clients in banking, , retailing, telecommunications and care” but these upstanding firms don’t want to know who tehy are.

Of all the underhanded, -sucking, detestable things I have seen do in the past six , this takes the cake.

Please spread the word: generall you are not under any to pay for a ’s .

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