Gay New Yorkers Head to Greenwich for Weddings

, . — They wanted a New . “Our lives are here; our are here,” said Janis , 56, who lives in with , the she married on May 21.

But New York has not approved same-sex marriage. “It got to the point where it doesn’t look 100 percent good right now. When you have , ., 20 minutes away, I said, ‘Why are we waiting?’ ”

And so another couple from outside made what is becoming a familiar pilgrimage to this town of wealth and privilege, the first municipality over the state line by Interstate 95 or -North.

From Nov. 12, 2008, the day same- marriages became legal in , through the end of May, 139 same- applied for a license and wed in . All but three of them were been from out of state, most from , according to Barbara Lowden, the town’s of vital statistics.

The town has the most same- marriages in ; statewide figures through February, the most recent available, showed as the for one in every five , though it has only 2 percent of the .

Best known for its old- and new- families stretching from the Sound to its fabled back country, has been vexed in the past by its proximity to the . In 2001, the of buying tickets for the , not available in New York, grew so big that town officials suspended sales for a day.

These days, by contrast, local businesses would like ’s of toe-dippers to stick around a little longer than they have been. Most have a brief ceremony in a meeting room or outside on the grounds, then leave immediately for receptions back in New York or honeymoons elsewhere.

Thomas C. , the general manager of the , said the hotel had advertised on some and Web sites in hopes of attracting more business. The Hyatt averages 70 a year, he said, but this summer only two same- are scheduled so far. “We’d like to have a more,” he said.

June, the traditional month for wedding bliss, is coinciden

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IGLHRC Asks the Iraqi Government to Protect Gay People

NEW YORK, 17, 2009&; –&; The International and Commission () has sent a letter to the of , Wijdan , requesting that she takes specific to protect , , and () and prevent against those perceived to be .

’s letter, written to coincide with Ms. ’s visit to Washington D.C., responds to a recent wave of against Iraqi perceived to be .

Just hours before sent its letter, an identified as “Fazilat” (Virtue) posted flyers threatening with death on walls in the neighbourhood of .

The flyers, distributed on 17, list the of some of the would-be and states that “we will soon punish all you .” &;Residents of say the who were outed in these fliers have gone into hiding.

Previous acts of anti- in include the 2, 2009 murder of in the neighbourhood of .

An unidentified local official described these men as “sexual (Monharef Jensiyan) who were killed by of their tribe to restore their family .”

Prior to death, the men’s had disowned them and they were also thrown out of their tribes. So far no one has claimed their bodies and the government has not launched an investigation into the case.

These took place one week after Iraqi unearthed the bodies of 4 men killed by in on March 25.

The words “pervert” and “” (jaravah: a to describe ) were written on the of the victims. &;As part of this of , a in that was frequented by men has also been burnt down.

Apart from these cases, has also received reports of the arrest, , and murder of several of the group Iraqi- amid a government on -friendly businesses across .

Several other reports indicate of -judicial of across during the past few months.

In response to these violent , on 8, 2009, and Watch submitted an urgent appeal to the Special Procedures of the to ask for an investigation.

is also working closely with the D.C.-based Council on Global to bring the plight of and to the attention of U.S. , who will be meeting with the next week.

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Shadowy Group Threatens to Kill Gays in Iraq.&; A shadowy group has posted around the Iraqi capital’s main Shiite working-class district of naming alleged on a list and threatening to kill them.&; ( 24 News, 17, 2009)

Member of Iraqi Gay Group Pleads for Help “Before It’s Too Late”.&; Is there anyone to help me before it’s too late?&; That is the question asked by a member of Iraqi- in , who says he is to be executed, in a letter released at the weekend by Iraqi- in . (UK News, 6, 2009)

Iraqi Gays Sentenced to Death for Their Sexuality Face Execution.&; More than 100 in are facing – and some of them are believed to have been convicted of the ‘crime’ of being , the UK-based Iraqi- group revealed this afternoon.&; According to Hili of Iraqi-, the Iraqi plan to start executing them in batches of 20 from this week.&; (UK News, March 30, 2009)

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Gay Marriage Ban Inspires New Wave of Activists

&; — They’re calling it 2.0.

Outraged by ’ ban on same-sex marriage, a of , shaken out of a generational , have pushed to the forefront of the rights movement, using freshly minted grass-roots and embracing not only new technologies but also old-school methods like - and sickouts.

Matt , 23, a self-described “-actor turned activist,” founded one group, Equal Roots Coalition, with a group of about 10 days ago. “I’d been focused on other things in my life,” Mr. said. “Then Nov. 4 happened, and it woke me up.”

Often young and politically inexperienced, the new include an unlikely set of leaders, among them a , a search-engine marketer from Seattle and a former contestant on “,” who jokingly suggested that he had become involved in the movement as a way of making up for his on the show.

“We’re a couple in West , neither of us involved in activism, but we just wanted to help,” said Sean , 30, a stand-up comic who was the first openly contestant ever to do battle, however briefly, in the Gladiator Arena. “And we were amazed at what happened.”

Mr. and his companion were among several surprised by the strength of positive reaction after starting Web sites geared toward a demonstration planned for Wednesday, “Day Without a .” Its are asking to avoid going to work by “calling in ” and volunteering in the movement instead.

Many grass-roots leaders say the of , and acceptance of tactics that are more confrontational, amount to an implicit rejection of the measured approach of established rights , a course that, some men and maintain, allowed passage of the ban, Proposition 8.

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