Gay soldier may be discharged

- A military recommended on Tuesday that a officer who publicly announced he was should be discharged for violating the military’s policy against conduct.

Dan Choi would be the first New York member discharged for violating the so-called “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy, Fanning, a for the New York , said.

Choi, 28, appeared here before a Board, a panel of four , which deliberated for four hours before deciding to recommend the no longer recognise him as an officer.

Choi, a combat who on Sunday was a in ’s Parade, said it amounted to firing him “for nothing more than telling the about who I am”. See Gay soldier may be discharged

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National Guard: Gay Iraq veteran must leave service

A panel of New York officers has recommended that an war who acknowledged his must leave the service, his supporters said Tuesday.

First . Dan Choi disclosed in March that he is , challenging the 1994 “don’t ask, don’t tell” law that requires the military to discharge troops who disclose their . Tuesday’s ruling, made after a daylong hearing, is a step toward stripping Choi of his officer’s commission and ending his .

“It’s disappointing, but not unexpected,” said Sue Fulton, a for Out, a group of and alumni Choi helped found.

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Panel wants openly gay guardsman discharged

A military review panel recommended Tuesday that . Dan Choi, the Arabic who became a national figure in fighting the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy after declaring his on , be discharged from the service.

The four-member Board of officers in , N.Y., had no recommendation Tuesday for how the 28-year-old should be discharged.

It’s recommendation that the no longer recognize Choi as an officer must be approved by the First commander and the chief of the Bureau before Choi would be discharged.

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Ex-fighter pilot listens to feminine voice he’d tried to ignore

shifts in a chocolate brown seated on a in a small two-story near the University of and recounts her life.

It ’t been long since the last remnants of ’s were surgically removed, and she’s sore.

that would fit a boy or girl near the along with a picture of a mother and little boy in a .

, 58, gingerly climbed the stairs to use the bathroom, past a framed box of ribbons and medals, presented to David, the man she used to be.

Two years ago, David, a retired Air Colonel who served as a navigator and , told his wife, Mary, something he’d kept inside all his life. He was a in a man’s body.

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When asked, this gay soldier told

TUSTIN In a calm corner of his garage, a soldier rummages through reminders of the of his life. . A Middle . An . Only a few of the souvenirs in Dan Choi’s will fit into his travel duffel.

As he packs, his walks in. She reaches around her son’s boulder-sized for a hug.

“Are you staying for dinner?”

“I’m not sure.”

By , though, Choi will surely be gone. He’s getting out of Tustin, maybe for good.

has unsettled the 28-year-old combat and his family. In March, on national , he said, “I am .”

That was news to a of , including his bosses. And, the three short words thrust Choi into the limelight, booked his calendar with equal-rights – and earned him a slip from the military.

But all the cameras and microphones that have trailed Choi since then have captured only part of the story. They haven’t been privy to his ’ distress, his past or his of liberation.

Thousands of other troops have gotten booted for outing themselves (or being outed) as or . But, like clockwork, most have disappeared from public view. Choi figures he will too at some point.

But he’s not going away now, and he’s not going away quietly.

LOWS

Over loudspeakers, he ranted.

It was 1998, and Clinton was getting grilled by national media for his then-alleged affair with a 22-year-old intern. At Tustin , Choi, 17, took on the role of Clinton scold. He locked himself in a room and commandeered the public system to decry the commander-in-chief’s weakness and offer what he saw as a cure-all: in Christ.

Choi’s sister, Grace, then a , her ’s as “surprising, but not embarrassing.”

Their , a who fought in the , helped raise his to battle against and . Years later, that duty to speak out would inspire Choi to talk about his – and throw a crimp in their father-son .

“I always think of the story of a of telling Christ to his disciples,” Choi says, adding: “And Christ said, ‘… if they keep quiet, the rocks will cry out.’”

But, in at least, Choi’s bold talk came with a cost. The acne-faced student body his as morning news announcer, and was forced into a sabbatical from student government.

Graduation cleaned his . Reinstated as , the straight-A student gave a parting to his . And, for the U.S. at , Choi left a rousing, two-page letter in the back of his own yearbook.

“Leave your kingdom,” he wrote to himself, “to be a lonely plebe down in the dump.”

STANDING UP

In a forest near the academy, Choi smeared earth-tone paint on his and hunkered down with his rifle. Energy-sapping practice , he says, were key to his college experience.

On campus, Choi studied environmental engineering. Critically, he also began mastering Arabic.

And he held onto his . He studies in the dorms and recited the “Cadet ” every Sunday with the choir. “Make us to choose the harder right instead of the easier wrong,” he prayed, “and to never to be content with a half when the whole can be won.”

Still, Choi concealed a . Since fourth grade, he had begged to take away his attraction to other males. In college, he says, he remained unwilling to “explore” his .

In 2003, the War kicked into gear. Choi, now clear-faced and brawny, was soon sent to serve in the Persian Gulf.

There, he says he “greased hands” with elder Sheikhs, patrolled the Triangle of Death and designed a reverse-osmosis water plant for . He also passed on his knowledge of Arabic, as a teacher to thousands of American troops.

Throughout it all, compelled by the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy, Choi kept mum about his sexual .

His final wartime task, delivering backpacks full of cash to contractors, kept him awake at night. It was around the time of that mission, sleepless in the desert, that he started asking a tough question:

Do I really want to keep lying?

When his tour ended, he wanted to boomerang back to . But that dream was brought to a halt in March when, on behalf of scores of alumni and active-duty servicemembers, he went public with his .

WAR IN PEACE

On his last afternoon in town, rice steams in the kitchen as, upstairs, Choi sorts through a box of accolades.

“Who knows? Maybe one day I’ll be one of those stodgy old veterans wearing all his stuff,” he says, laughing, clutching a of medals.

Proud but tired of the half-, the highly decorated soldier returned from in 2008 and ditched reenlistment. Instead, he became a leader in the . Stationed in New York, he someone, parked down the street and lived in his car to be close to his first boyfriend.

Then Choi came home to Tustin to come out to his and – 19 times in fact, to show he wasn’t bluffing. He handed his a copy of the book “Loving Someone .” A later he discovered it unopened on the floor of his closet.

“They don’t accept it,” Choi says. “And I don’t think they will anytime soon.”

Neither will the military. After his first of several TV appearances, Choi, the rare Arabic-speaking serviceman, received an ultimatum from his employer – accept discharge or stand trial.

His chances before a judge seem slim, based on the dismissal of 12,500 past soldiers.

But he believes the fortunes of an estimated 65,000 and of the armed forced could be changed if were to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” a move favors. So, Choi keeps talking to news and shouting to , which his home life – and, recently, compelled him to pack up and move.

is not a right,” Choi says.

is an unacceptable, inexcusable wrong.”

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Time To Repeal Don’t Ask Don’t Tell

During his campaign for the , pledged that he would push to repeal “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” () — the military’s policy that bars from serving openly. Since taking office, however, and other officials serving in his administration have pushed the issue to the back burner. When asked about addressing in March, said, “I feel like we’ve got a on our plates right now and let’s push that one down the road a little bit.” Ret. Gen. , ’s , told the recently “not to add another to his already-full plate.” On ’s This Week, Stephanopolous asked Jones if the policy would be overturned. “I don’t know,” he replied. In fact, the website recently watered down language on repealing the policy, replacing the administration’s commitment to “repealing” with a commitment to simply “changing Don’t Ask Don’t Tell in a sensible way.” (The more definitive “repeal” language has since been reinserted.) At the same time, has indicated that he remains committed to repealing the policy. , an officer who told her superiors last January that she is , wrote to urging him to on repealing . Last week, personally responded to Tsao, writing, “I committed to changing our policy. Although it to complete. … I intend to fulfill my commitment!”

STILL CLAIMING : continues to weaken our nation’s military. Last week, the sent . — a graduate who served in and is fluent in Arabic — a letter informing him that he is no longer welcome in the U.S. military because he is . The said it was dismissing Choi for “moral or professional ,” specifically for admitting “publicly that you are a , which constitutes conduct. Your actions negatively affected the good order and discipline of the New York .” Choi is one of more than 13,000 U.S. to be discharged because of . This number includes those with special skills deemed “mission critical,” such as pilots, combat engineers, and linguists like Choi. The Government Accountability Office found in 2005 that the cost of discharging and replacing servicemembers fired because of their during the policy’s first totaled at least $190.5 million — roughly $20,000 per discharged . While cannot be repealed without , associate professor Aaron notes that as , has the authority to suspend enforcement of the policy. Though it is unclear whether will take this route (especially based on Jones’s advice), Choi said on last week that he plans to “fully fight” his dismissal “tooth and nail.” “I believe that ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ is wrong, and what we really need to be encouraging soldiers to do is to don’t lie, don’t hide, don’t discriminate, and don’t weaken the military. That’s what we need to be promoting,” he said.

REPEAL : Supporters of the discriminatory often argue that repealing it would weaken the military (despite the fact that Arabic-linguists who are in short supply have been discharged because of it) and fragment unit . However, a bipartisan study commissioned by the Palm Center at the last year found that “the presence of in the military is unlikely to undermine the ability to fight and win.” Choi said that “the biggest thing” he is “angry about” is that the claims that his unit suffered “good order and discipline” because he is . “That’s a big insult to my unit,” he said. After he came out as and before he was discharged, Choi said that “so many came up to me, my , my , that outranked me, folks that have been in the — and this is an infantry unit, infantry men that — coming up to me and saying, ‘Hey, sir, hey, Choi, we know, and we don’t care. What we care about is that you can contribute to the team.’” Indeed, a December 2006 of servicemembers who had served in or Afghanistan found that 73 percent of those polled were “comfortable with and .” Moreover, the American public doesn’t care either. According to a recent Quinnipiac poll, nearly two-thirds disagreed with the argument that “allowing openly to serve in the military would be divisive for the troops and hurt their ability to fight effectively.” Ret. Marine Corps Brig. Gen. , who participated in the Palm Center’s study, has criticized ’s plans to allow the to review the policy before deciding to on any repeal. “There’s been enough studying throughout the years,” he said. “Creating a new study will not change the facts.”

STILL OPPOSES A REPEAL: The ultra- Center for Military Readiness (CMR), a group that opposes women and serving in combat, is leading an effort against repealing and even trying to block from serving in the military altogether. The group’s , Elaine Donnelly, told last year that having serve in the military “sexualizes the ” because they “engage in passive aggressive behavior.” CMR also tries to muddy the waters with “ horror stories” from the military, despite having acknowledged that such stories are “very difficult to find.” Prominent of continue to obstruct as well. When asked about last Sunday, Sen. (R-AZ) offered his support for it. “Right now the military is functioning extremely well in very difficult conditions,” he said, adding that “the policy has been working and I think it’s been working well.” Other of , such as Rep. Ellen Tauscher (D-CA) and Rep. (D-PA), disagree. Sestak, himself a retired U.S. rear admiral, said of recently on , “We have to correct this. It’s just not right.” “I can remember being out there in command, and someone would come up to you and start to tell you — and you just want to say, no, I don’t want to lose you, you’re too good,” Sestak said.

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