Metro is playing catch-up, say supporters of gay protections

The argument that protecting government’s employees would force the to follow suit is all backward, supporters of a new anti- measure say.

Around the country, 90 percent of companies’ anti- policies include or . In Nashville, some of the city’s largest http://www.vanderbilt.edu/“> and http://www.hcahealthcare.com/“> — put similar policies into place.

Against that landscape, the new measure’s supporters say, it should have a of passage than a similar one proposed in 2003. But say following the private-sector pack isn’t the way to go.

“Just because someone else does something doesn’t mean it’s right, and we learned that when we all took off from ,” said , a former and of the http://www.factn.org/“>Family Action Council of Tennessee. “So unless we are going to like and just blindly do what everybody else is doing, we need to stop and think before we make this a law.”

The city already has protections based on race, , religious and in place, Fowler said, and protection based on is incongruous. He also said such a law could expose the city to by who feel it was broken.

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A Brutal Gay-Bashing In ptown

reports: “I was shocked tonight to into a , Mark, hobbling down the street. I was about to make a as I rode up behind him on my bike and then saw his . It was a of blood and . , he was leaving the Atlantic House - an historic pub in - when a group of three local kids hiding in an alley-way to threw a bottle at his and called him a . He threw the bottle back and then they set upon him. He’s not a slight guy, he’s strong and built and bearded. But he was clearly reeling from the assault and will return to the . The apparently responded heroically and after a captured the .” See A Brutal Gay-Bashing In ptown

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Swedish lesbians suck sperm banks dry

’s are racking up a serious of waiting for , due in part to a “” in demand from for vital supplies of .

So bad have things got that expectant customers at Hospital in Gothenburg are now forced to wait 18 months for treatment.

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Gay Olympic Medal Winning Boxer Dies Outcome Buffalo

Toronto— Mark Leduc a Canadien who had won a in boxing has died.

Leduc, 47 was a former light welterweight boxer who was the unlikely at the 1992 Barcelona. Leduc gained further notoriety when he came out as a man in 1994 in the TV For the of the . Leduc remains one of the few boxers ever to do so. In 1999 Leduc served as a of Toronto’s parade.

The reports that Leduc died at St. Michael’ after he was found unconscious in a local early . believe Leduc suffered a that damaged his .

The turned pro shortly after the 1992 and retired after winning the Canadian super in1993.

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Lawsuit Challenges Wis. Domestic Partnership Law

Social asked the Wisconsin on Thursday to strike down the state’s new domestic law, saying it violates a on .

The lawsuit, filed by three of Action, acknowledges the court will not have time to before the law goes into effect next month but says justices should halt as soon as possible.

. signed the law in the last month. Starting Aug. 3, same- can with counties to receive of the same as married , including the right to inherit , make hospital visits and take medical leave to care for an ill .

Wisconsin became the first to enact for same- through the Legislature. It also became the first to allow despite having a ban on and any “substantially similar” . See Lawsuit Challenges Wis. Domestic Partnership Law WCCO

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A Texas gay raid and Stonewall

The Fort Worth police have “some explaining to do,” said Jacquielynn Floyd in The Dallas Morning News. On June 28, officers raided a bar called the Lounge, sending a to intensive care with a . “In what I can only hope is a spectacularly infelicitous ,” it took place on the of the , the -rights movement’s . The ’ story—drunk men groped them—doesn’t add up.

Well, Jeff is backing his men and their classic “ Panic Defense,” said Dan Savage in The Stranger, which goes: He made a pass at me, so I was justified in beating/killing him. That would still be illegal, but it’s also bunk. “I’ve been in a million bars” like the Lounge, and “ men don’t grope when they enter bars.”

It is, “obviously, very sad” that one of the Lounge is in , said Rod Dreher in BeliefNet, but come on, the report that “ who entered a bar were set upon by drunk, horny who played grab-ass with them” is “hilarious,” and not at all far-fetched. , especially drunk , can be “as stupid as the rest of us.”

Except that the hospitalized man was reportedly drinking bottled water, said Jeff Epperly in New England’s Bay Windows. But 40 years after , this kind of goes on all over the U.S., not just in Texas. The at Forth Worth’s Lounge “was the work of a that wasn’t smart enough to hide its .” See A Texas gay raid and Stonewall The Week Magazine

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Obama urges lesbian, gay patience overturning ‘unjust laws’

Remarks by at the Month Reception, June 29, 2009

THE PRESIDENT: Hello, everybody. Hello, hello, hello. (.) Hey! Good to see you. (.) I’m waiting for FLOTUS here. FLOTUS always more than .

MRS. : No, you move too slow. (.)

THE : It is great to see everybody here today and they’re just — I’ve got a of in the room, but there are some I want to especially acknowledge. First of all, somebody who helped ensure that we are in the , Steve Hildebrand. Please give Steve a big round of . (.) Where’s Steve? He’s around here somewhere. (.)

The new chair of the Export-Import Bank, . (.) Where’s Fred? There’s Fred. Good to see you, Fred. Our Director of the Institute of Sciences at DOE, . Where’s John? (.) A couple of special — Bishop Gene Robinson. Where’s Gene? (.) Hey, Gene. Michael Guest is here. (.) Jim is here. (.) Oregon is here. (.) All of you are here. ( and .) Welcome to your . (.) So.

MEMBER: (Inaudible.) (.)

THE : Somebody asked from the Bedroom here. (.) You knew I was from Chicago too. (.)

It’s good to see so many and familiar , and I deeply appreciate the support I’ve received from so many of you. Michelle appreciates it and I want you to know that you have our support as well. (.) And you have my thanks for the work you do every day in pursuit of

on behalf of the millions of in this country who work hard and care about their communities — and who are , , , or . (.)

Now this , I don’t need to tell you, is incredibly difficult, although I think it’s important to consider the extraordinary progress that we have made. There are to overturn and unfair practices to stop. And though we’ve made progress, there are still , perhaps or even family and loved ones, who still hold fast to worn arguments and old ; who fail to see your families like their families; and who would deny you the rights that most Americans take for granted. And I know this is painful and I know it can be heartbreaking.

And yet all of you continue, leading by the force of the arguments you make but also by the power of the example that you set in your own lives — as and , as PTA and leaders in the community. And that’s important, and I’m glad that so many families could join us today. (.) For we know that progress depends not only on changing laws but also changing hearts. And that real, transformative change never begins in Washington (cellphone “quacks”). Whose duck is back there? (.)

MRS. : It’s a duck.

THE : There’s a duck quacking in there somewhere. (.) Where do you guys get these ring tones, by the way? (.) I’m just curious. (.)

Indeed, that’s the story of the movement for and — not just for those who are , but for all those in our history who’ve been denied the of ; who’ve been told that the full and opportunities of this country were closed to them. It’s the story of progress sought by those who started off with little influence or power; by who brought about change through quiet, personal acts of compassion and and sometimes defiance wherever and whenever they could.

That’s the story of a who’s here today, , who was fired — (.) Frank was fired from his as an astronomer for the simply because he was . And in 1965, he a outside the , which was at the time both an of but also an of extraordinary . And so we are proud of you, Frank, and we are grateful to you for your . (.)

It’s the story of the , which took place 40 years ago this week, when a group of — with few and fewer supporters — decided they’d had enough and refused to accept a policy of wanton . And who were at those are here today. Imagine the journey that they’ve traveled.

It’s the story of an that decimated a community — and the who came to support one another and save one another; and who continue to fight this ; and who demonstrated before the world that different kinds of families can show the same compassion and support in a time of need — that we all share the capacity to .

So this story, this , continues today — for even as we extraordinary as a nation, we cannot — and will not — put aside issues of basic . (.) We seek an America in which no one feels the pain of based on who you are or who you .

And I know that many in this room don’t believe that progress has come fast enough, and I understand that. It’s not for me to tell you to be patient, any more than it was for others to counsel patience to who were petitioning for a half-century ago.

But I say this: We have made progress and we will make more. And I want you to know that I expect and hope to be judged not by words, not by I’ve made, but by the that my administration keeps. And by the time you receive — (.) We’ve been in office now. I suspect that by the time this administration is over, I think you guys will have pretty good about the administration. (.)

Now while there is much more work to do, we can point to important changes we’ve already put in place since coming into office. I’ve signed a memorandum requiring all agencies to extend as many federal benefits as possible to families as law allows.

And these are benefits that will make a real difference for and , who are so often treated as if their families don’t exist. And I’d like to note that one of the key in helping us develop this policy is , our director of the , who is here today. And I want to thank . (.)

I’ve called on to repeal the so-called Defense of to help end — () — to help end against same- in this country. Now I want to add we have a duty to uphold existing law, but I believe we must do so in a way that does not exacerbate old divides. And fulfilling this duty in upholding the law in no way lessens my commitment to reversing this law. I’ve made that clear.

I’m also urging to pass the Benefits and Obligations , which will the full range of benefits, including healthcare, to and their children. (.) My administration is also working hard to pass an employee bill and hate-crimes bill, and we’re making progress on both fronts. (.) Judy and Dennis Shepard, as well as their son Logan, are here today. I with Judy in the in May — () — and I assured her and I assured all of you that we are going to pass an inclusive hate-crimes bill into law, a bill named for their son Matthew. (.)

In addition, my administration is committed to rescinding the discriminatory ban on entry to the based on status. (.) The just concluded a review of a to repeal this entry ban, which is a first and very big step toward ending this policy.

And we all know that / continues to be a public threat in many communities, including right here in the District of . And that’s why this past Saturday, on National Testing Day, I was proud once again to encourage all Americans to know their status and get tested the way Michelle and I know our status and got tested. (.)

And finally, I want to say a word about “don’t ask, don’t tell.” As I said before — I’ll say it again — I believe “don’t ask, don’t tell” doesn’t contribute to our . (.) In fact, I believe preventing patriotic Americans from serving their country weakens our . (.)

Now, my administration is already working with the and of the House and the on how we’ll go about ending this policy, which will require an of .

Someday, I’m confident, we’ll look back at this and ask why it generated such angst, but as , in a time of war, I do have a responsibility to see that this change is administered in a practical way and a way that takes over the long term. That’s why I’ve asked the secretary of Defense and the chairman of the Joint to develop a plan for how to thoroughly implement a repeal.

I know that every day that passes without a resolution is a deep to those who continue to be discharged under this policy — patriots who often possess critical and years of training and who’ve served this country well. But what I hope is that these cases underscore the urgency of reversing this policy not just because it’s the right thing to do, but because it is essential for our .

Now even as we take these steps, we must recognize that real progress depends not only on the laws we change but, as I said before, on the hearts we open. For if we’re honest with ourselves, we’ll acknowledge that there are good and decent in this country who don’t yet fully embrace their — not yet.

That’s why I’ve spoken about these issues not just in front of you, but in front of unlikely audiences — in front of African American church , in front of other audiences that have traditionally resisted these changes. And that’s what I’ll continue to do so. That’s how we’ll shift . That’s how we’ll honor the of leaders like Frank and many others who have refused to accept anything less than full and equal .

Now 40 years ago, in the of at a place called the Inn, a group of , including a few who are here today, as I said, defied an unjust policy and awakened a nascent movement.

It was the middle of the night. The police stormed the bar, which was known for being one of the few spots where it was safe to be in New York. Now raids like this were entirely ordinary. Because it was considered obscene and illegal to be , no establishments for and could get licenses to operate. The of these businesses, combined with the vulnerability of the community itself, meant places like , and the inside, were often the victims of and .

Now ordinarily, the would come and the customers would disperse. But on this night, something was different. There are many accounts of what happened, and much has been to history, but what we do know is this: didn’t leave. They stood their ground. And over the course of several nights they declared that they had seen enough in their time.

This was an against not just what they experienced that night, but what they had experienced their whole lives. And as with so many movements, it was also something more: It was at this defining moment that these folks who had been marginalized up to challenge not just how the world saw them, but also how they saw themselves.

As we’ve seen so many times in history, once that takes hold there is little that can stand in its way. (.) And the riots at gave way to , and gave way to a movement, and the movement gave way to a that continues to this day. It continues when a fights for her right to at the hospital bedside of a she loves. It continues when a is called a name for being different and says, “So what if I am?” It continues in your work and in your , in your fight to freely live your lives to the fullest.

In one year after the , a few hundred and and their supporters gathered at the Inn to a historic march for . But when they reached Central Park, the few hundred that began the march had swelled to 5,000. Something had changed, and it would never change back.

The is when these folks protested at 40 years ago no one could have imagined that you — or, for that matter, I () — would be standing here today. (.) So we are all witnesses to monumental changes in this country.

That should give us hope, but we cannot rest. We must continue to do our part to make progress — step by step, law by law, mind by changing mind. And I want you to know that in this task I will not only be your friend, I will continue to be an and a and a who fights with you and for you.

Thanks very much, everybody. bless you. (.) Thank you. It’s a little stuffed in here. We’re going to open — we opened up that door. We’re going to walk this way, and then we’re going to come around and we’ll see some of you over there, all right? (.) But out there. (.)

But thank you very much, all, for being here. Enjoy the . Thank you. (.) ###

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NY Visitor from Boston victim of attack, slurs during Gay Pride weekend

A man visiting a friend on the was robbed and -whipped during weekend by a group of yelling anti- slurs, the victim and said Sunday.

Joseph Holladay, 36, said he was set upon by at least on E. 85th St. about 4 a.m. Saturday.

“Out of nowhere, I’m being attacked,” he said from his bed at -Hospital , a gush visible on his forehead.

One of the called out, “What are you looking at?” and used an anti- , the Boston man added.

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Fresno Hospital Bars Lesbian From Visiting Partner And Giving Advice About Her Treatment, ACLU and NCLR Urge Hospital To Adopt Policies Respecting Same-Sex Relationships

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“We just couldn’t believe this was happening to us. This was the nightmare that we hoped we’d never have to live through,” said Teresa Rowe, who grew up in Clovis, California, but now lives in the Bay Area with her of four years, Kristin Orbin. “Unfortunately, because Kristin suffers from , trips to the hospital are pretty common for us, which is why we filled out the legal paper work to make sure I would be able to be with her and make emergency about her care. But the hospital wouldn’t let me see Kristen and ignored my advice about her treatment. They ended up giving her the exact I repeatedly asked them not to give her.”

On May 29, 2009, Rowe and Orbin attended the “Meet in the Middle” in support of for same- in Fresno. After the couple completed a 14-mile march in 90 , Orbin, who suffers from , collapsed in a seizure. The couple experienced from the , but Rowe was ultimately allowed to accompany Orbin to Community in Fresno. However, when the couple got the hospital, the driver would not allow Rowe to accompany Orbin into the even though Orbin had been in and out of consciousness, and Rowe was familiar with her and care.

Rowe repeatedly asked hospital employees to allow her to see Orbin and talk to a physician about her care but was refused. She volunteered to have Orbin’s legal naming Rowe as her care agent faxed to the hospital but was told that it wouldn’t do any good. When she asked that she at least be allowed to pass along the message that Orbin not be given the drug Ativan, she was told the message would be conveyed. If the message was given to those treating Orbin, it was ignored because Orbin was given the drug, which she didn’t need and which causes her unnecessary pain. Meanwhile, when she was awake, Orbin was also asking to be allowed to see Rowe. Although they were both told that no visitors were allowed in the area where Orbin was being treated, other patients were receiving guests. After being separated for several hours, Orbin finally saw her doctor. She complained to him, and Rowe was eventually allowed to be with her.

“Until the California upheld Prop 8, Kristen and Teresa were planning to get married. In this , must be especially diligent to protect same- from ,” said , a with the of Northern California. “As these so painfully demonstrate, no matter what hoops same- jump through to protect their , these kinds of horrible things will continue to happen as long as are denied the recognition and that only comes with .”

The letter sent by the and charges that it was a violation of state law for the hospital to discriminate against the couple based on their , as well as to refuse to recognize Rowe’s , which was authorized by Orbin’s advance care directive. The letter also notes that must post and follow a patient’s bill of rights that bars based on and patients the ability to designate visitors of their choosing and to decide who is able to make emergency decision about their care. The letter urges Community Medical Centers immediately to affirm their commitment to inclusive and sensitive for patients, and to take a number of steps to carry out that commitment.

in healthcare settings is still far too common for , , and ,” said Jason Schneider, MD, of the and Medical Association (). “No one is served when partners are barred from visitation and kept from participating in about their loved one’s care. It’s bad for who are kept from potentially life threatening information, it’s bad for partners who are left waiting hopelessly in the waiting rooms and it’s especially traumatic for patients who need the and support that only their partners can provide to help them through care emergencies.”

A copy of the letter, which gives the hospital until June 22nd to respond, is available at http://www.aclu.org/lgbt/discrim/39854res20090615.html.

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