After the break-up, what about the lake house?

IT was a perfect party — vodka lemonade on a dock overlooking a lake, of close , a cool in the country a couple of hours north of New York.

Inside, the house spoke of a in style, and of a committed . of the couple who owned the house hung on a wall in the master bedroom; the couple’s nickname — — was spelled out in large letters leaning against a wall in the kitchen.

But the couple, Benjamin Dixon, 31, and , 33, who had planned the evening as a , had broken up earlier. Still, with purchased by some of the guests, a catering deposit paid and a house they haven’t been able to sell, they figured it made sense to go and have a party anyway.

Their tale of has a familiar arc — , then blooms; lives intertwine; moments are and creep in; eventually the two begin to live as strangers — and an that has become increasingly familiar as well, as unwanted houses become rather than .

Rather than being a glossy testament to their taste and their , their house in Stanfordville, in , is now a dead weight that entangles them and makes it impossible to move on. Having bought it and an in at the height of the (and having made an agreement with a third in their lake house property not to sell it until December 2009), they are left with of two large mortgages. They are also left with two carefully decorated homes filled with one-of-a- found on and quirky furnishings by high-end designers like the Dutch collective that are reminders of what came before and, Mr. Dixon said, “big reminders of what was supposed to be.”

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A group has filed a complaint against the first openly U.S. mayor, Mayor , for violating the , Ore. City council’s .

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After allegedly making about a anchor, was demoted from his position as an .

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() A judge granted a sentencing delay to a man who assaulted a musician while she hugged her . The for Vinzen , 21, sought the delay.

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As of Wednesday, in St. Paul, Minnesota, can get . The state capital joined two other cities in that state in approving a resolution that allowed for

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bout 17 percent of gay men in Chicago are…

bout 17 percent of men in Chicago are -positive — and half of them don’t know it.

That’s according to authorititative new from the Department.

In particular, who have with men have double the infection rates of white and , even though they don’t appear to engage in riskier behavior, Chicago officials said today.

Their report was based on data collected last year from 570 in the National Behavioral .

It’s the first officials have used blood-testing to determine infection rates in this high- , said Christopher Brown, of the department’s STD, and division.

Past have relied solely on with and men about their status.

“What we found out pretty much confirms what we’ve known for a while,” Brown said.

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A political fight over the rights of same-sex…

A over the rights of same- is nearer in .

of 71, who want to overturn a new state same- law, have made an to file with state officials .

Saturday is the deadline to collect 120,577 valid voter and qualify for the Nov. 3 .

Protect Washington is the primary of R-71. of the allied and Network said by e-: “We are gathering and counting . I think we are making good progress.”

Protect has raised just more than $20,000 for a campaign that so far has been waged mostly through . Randall said the group is not anti- but pro-. The group wants voters to reject Bill 5688, the “everything but that passed this year and adds about 250 rights of for registered same- partners in Washington.

Defenders of the new state law, who call themselves Standing Together, say they are ready to defend the third round of rights added since creating the partners registry in 2007.

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Ballad of Gay Tony
announced tonight that The Ballad of Gay Tony will (ahem) come out on October 29 for 1600 Points ($20). The 360-exclusive for Grand Theft Auto 4 will put players in the role of , to impresario Tony (i.e. “ Tony”). This pack against the grittier The Lost and the Damned by showing night-life rather than rough . will also release the previously announced “Episodes from ” retail disc on the same day. It will include both packs on a disc for $39.99, and won’t require the original GTA4 disc to play. Finally, the company released a piece of promo artwork (above) available as a desktop background. Of course, it could always be Tony himself, and is further tweaking the absurd levels of among .

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IML’s (International Mr. Leather) executive…

’s (International Mr. Leather) has banned vendors at the group’s annual convention from displaying or selling any pornographic and videos which portray or promote unprotected , also known as barebacking.

A statement released on International Mr. Leather, Inc. and signed by Chuck Renslow, of , reads as follows: @ IML bans material promoting unsafe sex

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On Gay Issues, Obama Asks to Be Judged on Vows Kept

WASHINGTON — President Obama defended his policies on rights on Monday, telling an of men and that he remained committed to overturning the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” rule and that he expected to be judged “not by I’ve made but by the that my administration keeps.”

Mr. made his remarks at a reception in the East Room of the to commemorate the of the Stonewall , the 1969 that gave rise to the modern rights movement. Joined by his wife, Michelle, the directly addressed criticism from and leaders that he had not been a forceful for them.

“I know that many in this room don’t believe progress has come fast enough, and I understand that,” Mr. said. “It’s not for me to tell you to be patient any more than it was for others to counsel to African-Americans who were petitioning for a half-century ago.

“We’ve been in office now. I suspect that by the time this administration is over, I think you guys will have pretty good about the administration.”

Many and men supported Mr. ’s election, but their leaders have grown increasingly impatient and critical of him as .

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