Just because your gay it doesnt mean you will hit on everyone the same sex as youself nor look at them in a sexual way. do all hetrosexuals check out everyone on the street? or for some reson fantasise about everyone of the opperset sex? I never ever thought that my friend would hit on me or want a relationship (and never has), its only with the ones you fall for. I DONT UNDERSTAND those who immediatly move to a couple chairs away or stop hanging out with the person who has come out about being gay.